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The Unit Bath Problem

The Unit Bath Problem

May 27, 2026

Tokyo apartments are small. Expectations for adult life are not.Continue reading on Japonica Publication »

Japan Raised a Generation That Never Learned How to Love

Japan Raised a Generation That Never Learned How to Love

May 21, 2026

Now they’re being told to marry, have children, and save the birthrate.Continue reading on Japonica Publication »

Passing Each Other

Passing Each Other

May 15, 2026

On My Grandmother and Old AgeContinue reading on Medium »

I Didn’t Realize I Could Leave the Office Early

I Didn’t Realize I Could Leave the Office Early

April 29, 2026

Growing up in a system that teaches you not to escapeContinue reading on Japonica Publication »

Can I Make 100 Friends?

Can I Make 100 Friends?

April 22, 2026

What a childhood song taught me about friendship in Japan — and what adulthood revealed insteadContinue reading on Japonica Publication »

Hemlines and Hierarchies: Life Behind the Japanese School Uniform

Hemlines and Hierarchies: Life Behind the Japanese School Uniform

April 12, 2026

The unspoken rules, friendships, and daily choices that shape Japanese teenage lifeContinue reading on Japonica Publication »

Why Japan Feels Safe — If You Know How to Be Seen

Why Japan Feels Safe — If You Know How to Be Seen

April 6, 2026

From ice cream to laundry to kawaii, how Japanese women learn to manage visibility in everyday lifeContinue reading on Japonica Publication »

The After-Hours You Never See in Japan

The After-Hours You Never See in Japan

March 31, 2026

How staying late at the office became the country’s hidden nightlifeContinue reading on Japonica Publication »

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Books by Satoka

About Satoka

Two practices, one life.

I’m Satoka Sotome — a writer and tech worker based in Tokyo.

By day, I keep systems running: payments, incidents, the parts most people never see. By night (or Sunday morning), I write about what that actually feels like — work, technology, and everyday life in Japan, usually from the middle of things.

One of my essays became the most-read thing I’ve ever published. A layoff I didn’t ask for turned into a writing habit — and eventually, my first book.